Journey to Me & Beyond

Join my FB group: Journey to Me

Claudia Chan

I've created a group for Adult Children who have very traditional, controlling, manipulative parents, who now just want to live for themselves.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/2249634185512389

I was the daughter who was very obedient, who wanted to please my family. I studied hard, and worked hard. And yet I wanted more than the traditional path. 


So when I came upon the time to decide on my life partner, I had to make a very difficult choice. Do I please my parents and make myself unhappy? Or do I choose myself, and watch them walk away? 


Because obedience equals love. If I don’t obey, that means I don’t love them, don’t respect them. 


It took me a long time to separate these two things. 


Luckily my parents came around. And yet I know there are many people whose parents are not like that, very toxic and controlling. 


And that’s why I created this group, so we can walk through this together. 


Because I know it can be quite lonely and scary. 


I’ll be creating training videos and sharing stories in this group. 


I’ll see you in there. https://www.facebook.com/groups/2249634185512389